Top 5 Tips to Have Safe Threesome

Threesomes are exciting, and no one can argue against that. However, no matter what anyone says or thinks, where there is sex, there are dangers involved. While AIDS is one such danger, it is not the only thing you have to worry about. For instance, you cannot rule out the chances of accidental pregnancy! Therefore, we have decided to share a few tips that will help you have the safest threesome possible.

Know the Person

Sex with strangers is fun and adventurous but it takes a little contact to end the fun. Therefore, it is always recommended to pass such opportunities and try it with someone you know. While this reduces the chances of having a threesome by several folds, but it increased the safety bar of the threesome.

Birth Control Pills

What Nutella does to bread, birth pills do to sex – elevate pleasure! To make sure that none of the girls involved in the act gets pregnant, make use of a birth control pill. There are many types of birth control pills available in the market that you can use. However, it is always recommended to take a gynaecologist’s advice and word on the quantity and dosage. Stick to the schedule and you will not regret the pills.

Multiple Condoms

Condoms add an extra level of security to the amazing act of threesome. Even if the girl(s) are on pills, it is always recommended to use a condom. Now, how to do it in the case of a threesome? It depends on the participants. If there are two girls and one guy, it is recommended that both the ladies should use female condoms so that the guy can go places without having to change his suit. In case the ladies do not like the idea of using a female condom, the guy should change his condom every time he changes the hole. This can be time consuming and moment-breaking but remember ‘safety first’. However, in case there are two men and one girl, it is advisable that both men have the condoms on. In such a case, a female condom should be avoided as it can harm the guys sexually.

Set Rules

A threesome is like a game where everyone gets to enjoy their one or more fantasy. And like any other game, this one should also be played by rules. If you hate something, let the other two people know. If you do not want to be a part of a certain activity, tell them before you start. Likewise, if you like something specific, or have a certain fantasy, share that too. This way, all three parties will be clear with the needs and expectations and hence any unpleasant surprises, especially in the buttocks, can be avoided.

Emotional Well-Being

In continuation to setting the ground rules stated in above point, it is important to ensure that you are emotionally stable before and after sex. This is even more important when a threesome includes a couple. It has been observed that if the ground rules are not followed by either partner, the end result is not ‘great sex’ but ‘heartbreaking and emotional breakdown’. It is important for the couple to understand that the ‘single’ was here for fun and not for love and you did it for pleasure and not to lose each other.

Threesomes are amazing but at the same time, if the participants do not take enough precautions, a lot of things can go wrong.

3Somer Review

3somer3Somer claims to be the best dating app for kinky, open-minded singles as well as singles that are on the hunt for threesomes, in order to spice up their sex life. The website caters to the needs of people with diverse sexual preferences, such as lesbians, gays, transgender – and can be said to be an app for everybody. In addition to this, the app also serves to the needs of people belonging to different religious and racial backgrounds. The sheer geographical reach of this platform is also worth commending, having members from places like the United States, New Zealand, Canada, Australia, England, Scotland and the United Kingdom to name a few.


Register an account with your personal information such as name, age, gender and location, among others. You may also include a picture that would give you a head start in the world of swinger dating. The built-in feature known as spark would allow you to connect with like – minded people online. If you’ve been a regular user on Tinder, you’d certainly feel at home using this feature. Other features on the app are as follows:

  • Find people based on your likes and preferences using the search feature
  • Send chat messages to people whom you’re interested in

Another noteworthy feature of this app is that every profile is manually reviewed in order to eliminate non-genuine users. In addition to this, there is absolutely no nudity or porn allowed here.

Using the app is pretty simple and you wouldn’t face any difficulty regardless of whether or not you’ve been using online dating sites earlier. The lack of video chat pinches a little but given the fact that the site promotes discrete dating, this seems to be a thought about omission.

Paid or Free

The couples dating app that also happens to cater to the needs of singles is absolutely free to use provided you are content with the standard set of features. On the other hand, there are advanced features that require you to upgrade your profile. Subscription options are stated below:

  • 1 month subscription with auto-renewal: $15.99
  • 3 month subscription with auto-renewal: $35.99
  • 6 month subscription: $59.99

In addition to offering an advertisement free experience, paid membership of the 3Somer app would give you access to advanced features like real-time chat and advanced search. Besides, free users also have a daily swipe limit for the Spark feature.

Final Verdict

3Somer is undoubtedly one of the best apps out there for both couples as well as singles looking to spice up their sex lives. As a matter of fact, premium subscription of the app is quite reasonable but it completely depends on how you make the most of it. All in all, 3Somer boasts of all the bells and whistles that make it a heavyweight in the online threesome dating category, as a result of which it is the no. 1 app in the review list.

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Feeld (3nder) Review

feeld (3nder)Overview

Feeld is a dating app for couples and singles. The platform claims to offer a private space to people where they can meet both couples and singles who wish to try something out of the norm. This is a platform that urges people to explore their sexuality, which is beyond norms of the society. But, is this the right app to invest your money on? Read on to find out in this review.


There is no doubt about the fact that Feeld is a feature-packed app for iOS that needs little introduction. The app has been out on the market for a while now and has a decent membership base, which means your chances of finding a match are good. Some of the key features of this app include:

  • Facebook-verified members to ensure genuineness of users joining Feeld
  • Flexibility to use real, fake or fun names in order to ensure privacy of users
  • Hide your profile from Facebook friends: Given the sensitivity, you would be able to hide your profile from Facebook friends
  • Temporary photos that disappear after one view. A step ahead from platforms that keep pictures for about a day
  • Create group chats to connect with like-minded people
  • Keep a tab on when someone likes you and take things forward

Free or Paid

It is to be borne in mind that you must be 18 years and older to become a member of this platform. The app is free to download and use. Additional features are accessible once you join the Majestic Society, which is similar to premium membership of the site. Access to premium features is available at a premium charge of £8.99 a month or £17.99 for 3 months.

Users can also use the 7-day free trial that begins from the date of signing up for the subscription. The subscription fee is charged on the 7th day unless cancelled by the user at least 24-hours before the end of trial.

Final Verdict

Feeld is one of the best apps we have seen in the online couples dating segment. The apps scores over competitors such as 3nder, with the help of tones of privacy options. Not only can you hide your profile from Facebook friends but also lock the app using the TouchID and Passcode for an additional level of security.

Furthermore, features like one-to-one chat and group chats make it convenient for user to connect with like-minded people online. Besides, you also stand a chance to connect with people around you thanks to the location-based connecting feature embedded into the app.

All in all it is difficult to difficult to see why you would need any other feature on a dating app that caters to the needs of both singles and couples. Above all, the affordable subscription options only make it a sweeter deal.